Honestly, the past almost 2 months have literally been the most stressful for me. And to top it off, I'm transitioning back into a full time writer this summer and I'm still so very stressed. Today's Topic is one that's been annoying me quite a bit and that's basically because I've been dealing with it. One of the things that I hate about myself ( and I'm trying to rid of it ) is that I have real bad anxiety like really really really bad. I can overthink something so bad that it'll give me the worst kind of headache and I hate it so much.
Lately I've been trying to soothe my mind, which is mainly why I'm starting to take my social media break ( it's much needed). There's so much going on right now in my personal life and it's a bit overwhelming and that's why really soon I'm be breaking away from social media for a while. Stress is definitely something that I have to get out of seriously because let's be honest: I'm 17 , I shouldn't stress nearly as much as I do , I'm Too young , and stress kills you in the end. And I refuse to go out like that, not from stressing myself to that point. I REFUSE. The Message that I want to spread from this post is that please do not push yourself too far and stress yourself out. Take it from a person that's been/ still going through it. It's not a good feeling of having anxiety it's really not, and I wouldn't wish that on anybody. I'm only 17, and I'm pretty sure there is much more to stress about as I get older, I just have to find a way to deal with it in a better way. One good thing that has came from this is that a lot of people who I have seen that are not for me are no longer apart of my life anymore and I'm okay with that. I honestly am grateful for them leaving, and the lessons that I took from the situations. I am no longer going to allow people walk in and out of my life. At this point once you're gone you are gone, and there's nothing further that even needs to be said. Cutting negativity out and being positive really helps your mental state, and that's why I'm glad that soooo many people are not apart of my life anymore. I'm glad I was able to wake up and see that these are not the people that I wanna see in my future, and if you have people like that in your life, then you need to cut them out too. IG:HE.SLAYYED | BUSINESS PAGE:THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC:HESLAYYEDPALACE TWITTER:HESLAYYED FACEBOOK:TYRIEKRALPHAEL
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So for Today's blog post I wanted to talk about a topic that's been heavy on me for quite a bit, and It's a topic that will be deeper In depth when I start my Youtube Channel ( I have Storytimes to go along with this topic also ) and I just wanna bring this for attention for the moment. So recently I had an encounter with somebody who I thought that I was " Love " with or was beginning to at least ( Let's just say that ) and I got my heart hurt In so many words. But of course, I learned another lesson from It.
I think that I've finally reached my breaking point when it comes to knowing what I will and not deal with and I think at this point I just have simply gotten tired. what I wanna say Is that nobody should EVER feel like they are less than what they are. you should never go to sleep at night wondering what you did wrong and why you weren't good enough for somebody because at the end of the day you matter. I realized that I don't need a relationship it's just something that I want and it's a big difference between that. I'm only 17 and I don't have to stress myself out with that type of stuff and that I just need to live and do what makes me happy and continue to stay to stay on top of my grind, Because I can NEVER allow myself to be broken like that by any man ever again because I really was at my lowest point ever. I wouldn't wish that on anybody because heartache is something serious. One of the things that I want people to take away from today's post is to simply LIVE YOUR LIFE. I'm not saying don't be in a relationship but what I'm saying is don't ever put yourself in a situation where you are feeling drained because that situation as a whole isn't for you. be with somebody who motivates you to do better, who has their own goals ( and both of you work together towards your goals. ) and support and love each other and always communicate. Don't rush a relationship just wait for it to happen and until it happens continue to grind and even when it does come still grind don't ever stop because of that. Instead of me being sad and down about it ( like I was ) I have to pull myself up because I have so much to do and I am broken but I am NOT defeated. But this is all for the blog post today for right now, and remember I'm doing 2 posts a week. Every Tuesday and Friday at 3:30pm. Remember to slay wickedly and fearlessly and live your life. See you next time! 😘 -TyriekRalphael ❤️ IG: HE.SLAYYED | BUSINESS PAGE: THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC: HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER: HESLAYYED FACEBOOK: TYRIEKRALPHAEL When you get to a certain age and point in your life you really start to see who your real friends are. Sometimes it takes for a situation to happen multiple times or maybe even once for it to be a wake up call on people. I have been through many situations with " fake friends" and I will admit that It took me a while to realize that you cannot let people have too much power over you, you cannot let people walk In and out of your life as they please, there comes a time where you have to put your foot down and say enough is enough. I cannot stress this enough that nobody should ever feel like they are less than regardless of if they are in a relationship or friendship. I feel like if they don't appreciate you for you and everything that you do, then they are just simply are not for you and you have to accept it and let it go.
Since the new year has started a lot of people have exited my life and I've had to learn how to just simply let them go and say FUCK EM ! And I can honestly say that I've felt better about a lot of things. I've learned a lot of lessons about the stuff that I've been through also. Some of the things that I've learned are that you cannot expect too much from people, People make time for who they want to ( Nobody is ever too busy for you, if they wanna talk to you they will ), Don't Kiss anybody's ass ( Rule #1 😘), Put your foot down ( once somebody leaves out of your life, let them stay gone! Ain't No Re-Entry Bih ), and lastly , Forgive and Move On. Moving on is one of the best things that you can do and honestly it's all that you can do. You have to learn how to let people go that aren't meant to be and not beat up yourself up over it because some things are not meant to be and we can't control the future nor should we take things to heart that aren't meant to be. My advice that I can give that I've learned for myself on my own is to BOSS UP. continue to live your life (Because regardless life goes on ) and do what makes you happy, and be cautious of who you let into your life from now on. I can honestly I'm satisfied with the people in my life right now and I can honestly tell you that I have not lost anybody that I want back. Starting from now on I will be making a blog post every Tuesday and Friday ( 2 Posts a Week ! Yaaayyyy ) From Now on and I just literally decided this a few hours ago, and that's where this last minute Post came from Lol. This week kicks it off, and there's another post to follow on Friday. I decided to do this because I have a lot of topics to talk about and I felt like posting one day a week wasn't enough so I was like why not do something different? This is all for today's post but remember To Slay Wickedly and Fearlessly and stay tuned for what's to come ! -TyriekRalphael❤️ IG:@HE.SLAYYED | BUISNESS PAGE: @THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC:HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER:HESLAYYED FACEBOOK:TYRIEKRALPHAEL LINK TO YOUTUBE CHANNEL COMING SOON !!! Over the past few months, I've taken some time to discover and re-evaluate a lot of things happening in my life right now. There has been so much going on recently that I've had to take a break away from quite a few things, but since writing is indeed my passion I'm back and I'm better than ever. But during my time away I have done a lot of preparation on a lot of projects that I have up and coming and I'll be excited to announce what those are once they are complete but for now they are still pretty much secret.
Some of the things that I have recently announced that I'm doing Is my YouTube Channel. I'm So excited and so proud because I've been working on this for so long and I finally decided to just do it already and get it started. I've decided to go after everything that I want this year because 2017 is my year and I'm finally getting to a place where I can say I'm comfortable and building up my own happiness. Even though there have been bumps in the road, I'm still pushing through and making a way for me to get what I need to get done. Another exciting thing is that I'm finally back on top of writing my book series that I've been working on for the past two years and I'm so excited about that also because I really have been working so hard and I have to work even harder because writing a book let alone a series is no easy feat. That's honestly the main reason why I've remained low key because I have been working on myself and a lot of different projects and I don't like to announce my every move, I like for people to see my accomplishments when I complete them. You Can expect from now on a blog post every Friday at 3:30pm. I have a lot of new and exciting topics to discuss and I look forward to what the rest of this year holds. I will be posting the link to my website on ALL of my social media accounts and if you are not following me on them please follow me on them I will leave them listed below and It can also be found on the contact tab on this website. This is all for Today's blog post remember you guys slay wickedly and endlessly and Always stay Low-Key. -TyriekRalphael ❤️ IG:HE.SLAYYED SC:HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER: HESLAYYED FACEBOOK: TYRIEKRALPHAEL |
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