Can't make a post today guys! everything this week has been stressful and last minute so I won't be able to do posts for the moment.
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Honestly, the past almost 2 months have literally been the most stressful for me. And to top it off, I'm transitioning back into a full time writer this summer and I'm still so very stressed. Today's Topic is one that's been annoying me quite a bit and that's basically because I've been dealing with it. One of the things that I hate about myself ( and I'm trying to rid of it ) is that I have real bad anxiety like really really really bad. I can overthink something so bad that it'll give me the worst kind of headache and I hate it so much.
Lately I've been trying to soothe my mind, which is mainly why I'm starting to take my social media break ( it's much needed). There's so much going on right now in my personal life and it's a bit overwhelming and that's why really soon I'm be breaking away from social media for a while. Stress is definitely something that I have to get out of seriously because let's be honest: I'm 17 , I shouldn't stress nearly as much as I do , I'm Too young , and stress kills you in the end. And I refuse to go out like that, not from stressing myself to that point. I REFUSE. The Message that I want to spread from this post is that please do not push yourself too far and stress yourself out. Take it from a person that's been/ still going through it. It's not a good feeling of having anxiety it's really not, and I wouldn't wish that on anybody. I'm only 17, and I'm pretty sure there is much more to stress about as I get older, I just have to find a way to deal with it in a better way. One good thing that has came from this is that a lot of people who I have seen that are not for me are no longer apart of my life anymore and I'm okay with that. I honestly am grateful for them leaving, and the lessons that I took from the situations. I am no longer going to allow people walk in and out of my life. At this point once you're gone you are gone, and there's nothing further that even needs to be said. Cutting negativity out and being positive really helps your mental state, and that's why I'm glad that soooo many people are not apart of my life anymore. I'm glad I was able to wake up and see that these are not the people that I wanna see in my future, and if you have people like that in your life, then you need to cut them out too. IG:HE.SLAYYED | BUSINESS PAGE:THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC:HESLAYYEDPALACE TWITTER:HESLAYYED FACEBOOK:TYRIEKRALPHAEL So for Today's blog post I wanted to talk about a topic that's been heavy on me for quite a bit, and It's a topic that will be deeper In depth when I start my Youtube Channel ( I have Storytimes to go along with this topic also ) and I just wanna bring this for attention for the moment. So recently I had an encounter with somebody who I thought that I was " Love " with or was beginning to at least ( Let's just say that ) and I got my heart hurt In so many words. But of course, I learned another lesson from It.
I think that I've finally reached my breaking point when it comes to knowing what I will and not deal with and I think at this point I just have simply gotten tired. what I wanna say Is that nobody should EVER feel like they are less than what they are. you should never go to sleep at night wondering what you did wrong and why you weren't good enough for somebody because at the end of the day you matter. I realized that I don't need a relationship it's just something that I want and it's a big difference between that. I'm only 17 and I don't have to stress myself out with that type of stuff and that I just need to live and do what makes me happy and continue to stay to stay on top of my grind, Because I can NEVER allow myself to be broken like that by any man ever again because I really was at my lowest point ever. I wouldn't wish that on anybody because heartache is something serious. One of the things that I want people to take away from today's post is to simply LIVE YOUR LIFE. I'm not saying don't be in a relationship but what I'm saying is don't ever put yourself in a situation where you are feeling drained because that situation as a whole isn't for you. be with somebody who motivates you to do better, who has their own goals ( and both of you work together towards your goals. ) and support and love each other and always communicate. Don't rush a relationship just wait for it to happen and until it happens continue to grind and even when it does come still grind don't ever stop because of that. Instead of me being sad and down about it ( like I was ) I have to pull myself up because I have so much to do and I am broken but I am NOT defeated. But this is all for the blog post today for right now, and remember I'm doing 2 posts a week. Every Tuesday and Friday at 3:30pm. Remember to slay wickedly and fearlessly and live your life. See you next time! 😘 -TyriekRalphael ❤️ IG: HE.SLAYYED | BUSINESS PAGE: THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC: HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER: HESLAYYED FACEBOOK: TYRIEKRALPHAEL When you get to a certain age and point in your life you really start to see who your real friends are. Sometimes it takes for a situation to happen multiple times or maybe even once for it to be a wake up call on people. I have been through many situations with " fake friends" and I will admit that It took me a while to realize that you cannot let people have too much power over you, you cannot let people walk In and out of your life as they please, there comes a time where you have to put your foot down and say enough is enough. I cannot stress this enough that nobody should ever feel like they are less than regardless of if they are in a relationship or friendship. I feel like if they don't appreciate you for you and everything that you do, then they are just simply are not for you and you have to accept it and let it go.
Since the new year has started a lot of people have exited my life and I've had to learn how to just simply let them go and say FUCK EM ! And I can honestly say that I've felt better about a lot of things. I've learned a lot of lessons about the stuff that I've been through also. Some of the things that I've learned are that you cannot expect too much from people, People make time for who they want to ( Nobody is ever too busy for you, if they wanna talk to you they will ), Don't Kiss anybody's ass ( Rule #1 😘), Put your foot down ( once somebody leaves out of your life, let them stay gone! Ain't No Re-Entry Bih ), and lastly , Forgive and Move On. Moving on is one of the best things that you can do and honestly it's all that you can do. You have to learn how to let people go that aren't meant to be and not beat up yourself up over it because some things are not meant to be and we can't control the future nor should we take things to heart that aren't meant to be. My advice that I can give that I've learned for myself on my own is to BOSS UP. continue to live your life (Because regardless life goes on ) and do what makes you happy, and be cautious of who you let into your life from now on. I can honestly I'm satisfied with the people in my life right now and I can honestly tell you that I have not lost anybody that I want back. Starting from now on I will be making a blog post every Tuesday and Friday ( 2 Posts a Week ! Yaaayyyy ) From Now on and I just literally decided this a few hours ago, and that's where this last minute Post came from Lol. This week kicks it off, and there's another post to follow on Friday. I decided to do this because I have a lot of topics to talk about and I felt like posting one day a week wasn't enough so I was like why not do something different? This is all for today's post but remember To Slay Wickedly and Fearlessly and stay tuned for what's to come ! -TyriekRalphael❤️ IG:@HE.SLAYYED | BUISNESS PAGE: @THEHESLAYYEDEMPIRE SC:HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER:HESLAYYED FACEBOOK:TYRIEKRALPHAEL LINK TO YOUTUBE CHANNEL COMING SOON !!! Over the past few months, I've taken some time to discover and re-evaluate a lot of things happening in my life right now. There has been so much going on recently that I've had to take a break away from quite a few things, but since writing is indeed my passion I'm back and I'm better than ever. But during my time away I have done a lot of preparation on a lot of projects that I have up and coming and I'll be excited to announce what those are once they are complete but for now they are still pretty much secret.
Some of the things that I have recently announced that I'm doing Is my YouTube Channel. I'm So excited and so proud because I've been working on this for so long and I finally decided to just do it already and get it started. I've decided to go after everything that I want this year because 2017 is my year and I'm finally getting to a place where I can say I'm comfortable and building up my own happiness. Even though there have been bumps in the road, I'm still pushing through and making a way for me to get what I need to get done. Another exciting thing is that I'm finally back on top of writing my book series that I've been working on for the past two years and I'm so excited about that also because I really have been working so hard and I have to work even harder because writing a book let alone a series is no easy feat. That's honestly the main reason why I've remained low key because I have been working on myself and a lot of different projects and I don't like to announce my every move, I like for people to see my accomplishments when I complete them. You Can expect from now on a blog post every Friday at 3:30pm. I have a lot of new and exciting topics to discuss and I look forward to what the rest of this year holds. I will be posting the link to my website on ALL of my social media accounts and if you are not following me on them please follow me on them I will leave them listed below and It can also be found on the contact tab on this website. This is all for Today's blog post remember you guys slay wickedly and endlessly and Always stay Low-Key. -TyriekRalphael ❤️ IG:HE.SLAYYED SC:HE.SLAYYED2 TWITTER: HESLAYYED FACEBOOK: TYRIEKRALPHAEL Fear. It's a fire that burns in even the coldest heart. It may paralyze or motivate most of us , but be carfeful, for if our fears get in the wrong hands, It can be used as a weapon agaisnt us. Some of us fear the truth, and the uncertainty of what that truth might do to the future, while some of us fear that the truth is now completely absolute. But those are not the only types of fear. You can fear others, and maybe sometimes you can even fear yourself. There are times you have to grow out of that fear and push to make yourself stronger in any situation that you are put in. Pain can make us stronger , and overcoming your fears is just like releasing your pain.
It's finally a new year , who knew that those 12 months could fly by so fast? It's time to start off this year the right way, and that means if you fear something beat it. If you're holding on to something, let it go. typically whatever's been holding you back should have been left behind, but everyone heals at a different pace. I have a fear of my own though. it's not a bad kind of fear though, it's a kind of fear that motivates me and makes me want to push for my goals even harder. My biggest fear is that I'll fail in everything that I wanted to do in my life, That includes being a writer and releasing my book series that I am currently working on. everybody knows about me that I model, act , blog , write , and I am also about to be a Youtuber starting soon. I also want to make HE.SLAYYED more than a name I want to make it into a brand, an empire. and that's why I keep pushing to make sure that I make the right moves and the right choices and also never quit so that I can make my true dreams happen. I know that it's not going to be easy but I'm still coming full force for everyhting I want. One of the things that you can't do Is let your fear control you. Yes, let the fear be known but you can always overcome it. My challenge to everybody that is reading this is for you to find what your fear is, and you do what you can do to confront it. It's time to take control of your life In this new year and stop holding yourself back simply because you are scared. be careful who you trust also because a lot of people use our weakness agaisnt us and to their advantage, as I had stated In the begginning of this post when I had first started. bring the new year In with happiness, love, and living life and never backing down. It's honestly one of the best things you could do. Recuperation. It's a process that each of us come to need at a certain point in our lives. For many of us , it's a period of rebirth , a new beginning. I've took my recent time away as a time for me to start over and try to fix the broken pieces of my life , and get back on top to do the things that I have always wanted to do in my life , and to remember that life gets hard but you have to continue to push through it. I have so much planned for the new year , and it's currently in the works. I haven't made any posts or any hints on social media or anything because I'm moving in complete silence until all of my projects are finished. But just know that new things are on the way.
2016 has been quite a year for me. A lot of things have happened in these 12 months , and it's honestly been very eye opening. I've learned a lot of lessons about so many things, and learned quite a lot about myself also. I've had to let some people go , and also welcome new people into my life. And no , I didn't decide that I was going to leave people in 2016 and keep certain ones. A new year doesn't determine when you get to be happy , any day can be a day to cut someone that doesn't need to be in your life out of it. Don't wait until the end of a year to finally decide it's time to do so. 2017 is time for a fresh start , and to be more serious about what you want to do. And if certain people don't need to be apart of that , then move on and go be great in whatever it is without them. I've finally come to accept a lot of things for what they are now, and realizing that everything is not what it seems and that sometimes things are simply just not meant to be. Finally accepting and letting go is honestly one of the best feelings you could ever experience. Going into 2017 , it's going to be my last year being a teenager basically because I'll be turning 18. It's exciting for me but at the same time it's like a Wow moment because time really has flown by but I'm ready for it. And honestly next year , I'm coming full force and taking control of everything I want in 2017. Mainly in summer of 2017, I'm looking for revenge. Everything that I want is finally going to fall into place, and I believe that it will. You have to have faith in what you want and motivate yourself, because nobody else is going to do it for you. No one else is going to chase after what you want but you. Never give up on what you desire. Recuperation isn't a bad thing. A lot of us come to need it, especially when at times life becomes difficult to deal with. But this process only makes you stronger, and motivates the best of us. I'm glad that I took the time that I needed to make myself better. But I'm not finished yet, because everyday is a day to improve yourself. And with this being the final blog post of 2016, I just want to say that I'm grateful for eveybody that supports me, who's ever been there from the beginning, who loves me , and also to everyone that's ever doubted me. Because of you I wake up everyday reaching higher and higher to my goals making myself happy and those around me. 2017 is going to be a year full of new excitement, and hopefully less pain and suffering. Stay tuned for the next blog post coming in January, and happy New Years to everyone. I love you all ❤. -TyriekRaphael There comes a time when you have to let go of certain things, you have to become a better person , but most importantly you have to free yourself. You HAVE to forgive. and if you cant do it for the person or the situation , then you need to do it for yourself . don't hold on to that negative energy and set yourself free from everything and go make yourself happy. if you need closure about any situation then seek it , and do your best to cope , but don't rush anything because everybody takes situations differently as well as cope differently . but don't hold on to it for so long. Release any anger in your heart , Whether it's through meditation , boxing , praying , therapy LET IT GO! it's really nothing worth holding onto , take it from a person that has been through this type of stuff already .
My advice to anybody who is reading this is that you go out there and you make yourself happy . find whatever makes you happy whatever hobby you enjoy and go fulfill it. Do some self evaluation if you need to take some time to yourself , stop putting others before yourself and start that journey to finding yourself again. there is only so much that a person could take and deal with which is why a lot of people snap , simply because they've had enough . You should never allow a person to treat you wrong , like you are less than a person , especially If the two of you are supposed to be friends . Loyalty plays a big part in these type of situations too , but in today's world it seems as if loyalty is just another word in a dictionary. All that I ask of anybody that is reading this is to the the thing that took me so hard to do : FORGIVE. find your inner peace , and go out there and make life worth something enjoyable. Remember, pain only lasts as long as you allow it too. Until next time , -TyriekRalphael WHY COMMUNICATION WORKS AND HOW YOU CAN BECOME A BETTER COMMUNICATOR AS WELL AS WHY IT IS IMPORTANT.7/11/2016 Communication is one of the most important things , especially in friendships and in relationships. It's basically the whole foundation of it because in the end you have to talk to each other. But In some cases, a lot of people may not have the best communication skills, which can cause a great ordeal of problems in a relationship and for the person. If you don't communicate something to somebody , you're basically sending them off and quite frankly who likes to be sent off ? Nobody right ? There is so much that you could do to strengthen a relationship by communicating trust me I have been through this multiple times so I know what I'm talking about and I know what you can do to be a better communicator. So how can you be a better communicator ? Well let me tell you .
One of the key things you must have is patience. You need patience so that you can have a better understanding of the situation within itself and so that you won't snap off on the Person that you're having the problem with , which can make things worse than they already are and I know many of you wouldn't want that. Instead of snapping even though you may be a little mad or upset about the situation , try asking in a calm manner what happened and see where the communication was broken and try to have a peaceful resolution to the problem instead of dragging it further causing now more arguments to happen. Don't be so quick to make assumptions about a situation. If you feel as if you know something but are not sure, speak upon it for clarity because you have a voice and it matters and if you feel like that you're not getting the truth or getting the closure that you need then you have to say something. Don't just sit there and not speak your opinion . SPEAK IT ! WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY MATTERS! You can never make something great again if you don't try to pull through even when it may get hard and talk like adults about the situation as well as learning from it , figuring out what to do next time this might happen and moving on . Be willing to push for what you really care about . Know EVERYTHING before you go and make assumptions that could make things worse. Acknowledge when you are wrong in a situation. Take accountability for when you do something wrong or make a mistake , it will make things so much easier versus having an ongoing debate about it when in the end you were in the wrong and you know that but don't wanna give up on it. This is also a BIG step in growing up and being mature which will make things a lot better for personal growth as well as being around other people , because let's be honest who really wants to be around somebody that can't be mature and that can't deal with situations like an adult or a young adult? I don't think anybody would to be honest. If you really care and you really want to work on things and do as good as you can then you have to be willing to fess up to something when you are wrong because that is how you learn from a mistake and grow from it and can have a healthier friendship. This now brings us to the final part of this talk on communication. Yes, there are many other parts to being a better communicator , but I didn't list them all I listed a few of the important ones that will get you far in a situation. remember why communication is important. it helps you out in a situation and makes things better, and most importantly in some cases that broken part in a relationship is healed. So remember to be a better communicator and listener and don't ever give up on what you care about. Every friendship or relationship matters , all you have to do is communicate. Until next time -TyriekRalphael ❤️ |
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