WHY COMMUNICATION WORKS AND HOW YOU CAN BECOME A BETTER COMMUNICATOR AS WELL AS WHY IT IS IMPORTANT.7/11/2016 Communication is one of the most important things , especially in friendships and in relationships. It's basically the whole foundation of it because in the end you have to talk to each other. But In some cases, a lot of people may not have the best communication skills, which can cause a great ordeal of problems in a relationship and for the person. If you don't communicate something to somebody , you're basically sending them off and quite frankly who likes to be sent off ? Nobody right ? There is so much that you could do to strengthen a relationship by communicating trust me I have been through this multiple times so I know what I'm talking about and I know what you can do to be a better communicator. So how can you be a better communicator ? Well let me tell you .
One of the key things you must have is patience. You need patience so that you can have a better understanding of the situation within itself and so that you won't snap off on the Person that you're having the problem with , which can make things worse than they already are and I know many of you wouldn't want that. Instead of snapping even though you may be a little mad or upset about the situation , try asking in a calm manner what happened and see where the communication was broken and try to have a peaceful resolution to the problem instead of dragging it further causing now more arguments to happen. Don't be so quick to make assumptions about a situation. If you feel as if you know something but are not sure, speak upon it for clarity because you have a voice and it matters and if you feel like that you're not getting the truth or getting the closure that you need then you have to say something. Don't just sit there and not speak your opinion . SPEAK IT ! WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY MATTERS! You can never make something great again if you don't try to pull through even when it may get hard and talk like adults about the situation as well as learning from it , figuring out what to do next time this might happen and moving on . Be willing to push for what you really care about . Know EVERYTHING before you go and make assumptions that could make things worse. Acknowledge when you are wrong in a situation. Take accountability for when you do something wrong or make a mistake , it will make things so much easier versus having an ongoing debate about it when in the end you were in the wrong and you know that but don't wanna give up on it. This is also a BIG step in growing up and being mature which will make things a lot better for personal growth as well as being around other people , because let's be honest who really wants to be around somebody that can't be mature and that can't deal with situations like an adult or a young adult? I don't think anybody would to be honest. If you really care and you really want to work on things and do as good as you can then you have to be willing to fess up to something when you are wrong because that is how you learn from a mistake and grow from it and can have a healthier friendship. This now brings us to the final part of this talk on communication. Yes, there are many other parts to being a better communicator , but I didn't list them all I listed a few of the important ones that will get you far in a situation. remember why communication is important. it helps you out in a situation and makes things better, and most importantly in some cases that broken part in a relationship is healed. So remember to be a better communicator and listener and don't ever give up on what you care about. Every friendship or relationship matters , all you have to do is communicate. Until next time -TyriekRalphael ❤️
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